What’s wrong with being a childless married woman?

Starting a family requires sacrifice, endurance and a strong partnership. It also needs to tackle the feminist desire to “have it all”.

Singapore's Ministry of Social and Family Development designated 2022 the Year of SG Families. ST FILE PHOTO
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Some time back, when meeting some work contacts for the very first time, one of them asked me, after spotting the rock on my ring finger, if I had children.

When I replied that my husband and I had just got married and liked our quiet coupledom, I received a quizzical look from my unrelenting acquaintance and the question: “But don’t you want kids?” 

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